UPDATE!!!!
@Bowman89 @CrazyElecE @Jleedog
Thank you for all your help, jokes on me!
The fuse that powers ACC wire under the hood at the bussbar is not an Accessory... It is the fuse 10a labeled TERM!! I feel like an idiot 🤣. I tracked down the wiring diagram and followed the wire backwards, realized why interior lights come on when I jump the battery to the ACC post.. it all makes sense now!
Post 39 - RC3A OG/WH
Splice ACC Term Fuse Out
RC3B OG/WH to Terminal Block ACC (also powers RC3C RD/DG & RC3D RD/DG - interior lights)
my ride is a 2015 XP4 1K EPS so the fuse panel is under the driver's side rear seat.
I learned a lot on this journey, I may need to upgrade some wires that get warm when my light bar is on and downgrade some fuses to 15's or 20's to be on the safe side. Also, may eliminate the relays that came with all my lights, not sure if it will make for a more simple circuit...