I thoroughly enjoy both, but ya, If i had to pick one vs. the other, I would prolly take the RZR...there's nothing like having my little girl all strapped in holding the passenger grab bar and saying "are you ready?" its priceless heh (she is two btw). I'm 31 going on 13 as well heh. As far as the spyder and respect, all you gotta do when those sport bikes get behind you or even the Harley's, rev it up and smoke them out, they will give you the thumbs up. heh heh...